Tantric Massage Tips

Tantra massage is a very, very special kind of massage, almost unique. It’s not readily available just everywhere because it takes a certain kind of specialization. The professional who provides such massage services must be a master of the basic and advanced principles of Tantra and meditation. The massage session must begin with ancient Tantric rituals and a time of meditation in order to focus on the Chakras and the spiritual link with the entire universe.

You must always keep in mind that this kind of massage is not meant to work the muscles and drive fatigue away, but to awaken the hidden mystic energy at the bottom of your spine and bring your body and spirit in complete harmony with the universe. If you’re planning to use music, then you should take the trouble to find some that has been designed to go along with meditation and Tantric massage. Such records are rare, but nonetheless available for sale. Some chill-out songs are also good, but it takes experience to identify the suitable ones.

Tantra massage makes use of light, sensual and slow strokes that can channel energy and increase the body’s sensitivity to a different reality. You may wish to apply some medium pressure along the sides of the spine in order to make your massage effective, but otherwise confine yourself to light pressure and to the movements inspired from the way energy flows through the body and especially the classic movement upwards from the base of the spine. A lot of skill and an intimate knowledge of your inner energy are required before even thinking to attempt Tantric massage.

Any kind of oil, lotion or crème goes along great with this massage, but you would do well to stay away from scented oils because they may draw unwanted attention to earthly things. Meditation and music are the only things you need for this kind of massage. Tantric massage can also be used to call forth the healing energy of the body in order to help people recover faster from injuries or illnesses. Couples can try Tantric massage in order to increase their intimacy and to create strong emotional bond between the two partners by building love, tenderness and trust instead of sex.

Erotic Massage Tips

This one is a delightful kind of massage that always ends with a good, strong orgasm and a cool, relaxed mood, leaving you refreshed and relaxed. The purpose of this massage is to achieve and maintain a high state of sexual arousal for as long as possible before letting things follow their course and bringing the show to a successful conclusion. Men who suffer from premature ejaculation can really benefit from erotic massages because it can get them used to maintaining a certain level of arousal without ejaculating.

Others may choose to use this massage as foreplay or as a method for enhancing the mood and increasing the erotic awareness of both lovers. For this type of massage you may want to get some CDs that are less on the romantic side and more of the stimulating variety; I’m talking about something closer to Billie Myers than to the Best Chill-Out Compilation: Volume 4 or whatever. Make liberal use of scented massage oil and make sure it’s a really spicy brand, not something suited for relaxation.

As always, don’t rush in and start with the genitals. Take your time and give a good all around massage before focusing on the pelvic muscles. Massage these muscles into a welcome state of relaxation that will allow your lover to achieve arousal and yet stay relaxed for a long time. Whisper into her ear how much you want her and how sexy she looks. Complete the massage by moving to the most important parts of the body. Again, don’t rush; if you’ve been taking things slowly thus far, don’t spoil the mood now. Do a good job and remember that a prolonged and strong orgasm is better than a three-second rush to the head. Save the rush for spontaneous sex in the park.

Sensual Massage Tips

Sensual massage is the kind of approach that goes wonderfully well with a romantic dinner by candlelight. Take her out for an intimate dinner and then make your move, but instead of getting straight to the intercourse, surprise her with a massage. Let her know that her body is driving you crazy and that you want to touch every single piece of her. This is a time to put your problems and worries aside and focus solely on making her feel hot and sexy. Sensual massage is not a hasty affair, but takes a good long time and it features a lot of touching in the most intimate places. It’s not the kind of massage you would give to just anybody because it’s meant to bring out passion, awaken the senses and come to an explosive end with a satisfying orgasm.

You will probably want to keep a romantic CD or two handy in order to heighten the mood. Massage supplies also include candles and incense, the massage oil, some clean towels and a clean sheet which is bound to get all messy and sticky at the end of the massage session. You should start by massaging softly because the first thing you want is to help your lover relax and get into the right mood. Tease her a bit by playing with the erogenous zones, but avoid the breasts and vagina. Go slow and focus on long, languid strokes while rubbing your body against hers. Find your pace and make sure you don’t leave out any part of her body.

And when you finally reach the most important part of the massage, keep in mind that you should not go for it like a maniac. Maintain the same pace and don’t forget to ask for permission first. Some people don’t actually appreciate that level of attention and might feel too uncomfortable to go all the way. Start by asking her how she feels and if she’s enjoyed the massage so far and then ask her if she wants you to go further. If she says yes, massage her private parts starting with the outer lips and finishing with the clitoris and G-spot. If you’re both comfortable with the use of toys, use a vibrator on her vagina; she won’t mind.