Saturday, January 13, 2007

How to find the hidden erogenous zones?

With the basic questions regarding what erogenous zones are out of the way, we can move on to a detailed discussion about the exact location of these zones. From the most obvious and down to the really mysterious ones, we are going to identify all erogenous zones and provide some tips on how to use them. The female body is a precious work of biological engineering and the curiosity of men is never satisfied as to what drives women crazy with desire.

The male body is much simpler in this regard, although it does have its hidden pleasure spots. Pretty much anybody knows how to turn a man on and which are the exact places where men like to be touched, caressed or stroked. Women, however, are different in this aspect. Their bodies feature a bigger number of erogenous zones which the skilled lover can use to make them touch the sky and beg for more.

Finding and stimulating these zones can prove to be simple and complicated at the same time. It’s really simple because anyone can read an article such as this one and learn all there is to learn from a text before moving on to hands-on experience. But it’s also complicated because it takes practice to understand how to use them. Not all women respond to stimulation in the same way and a man must think on his feet to spot which zones work for the woman in question and to change the plan of attack on the fly.

Before we start discussing the zones themselves there’s one thing we should clear up. Contrary to the ideas cherished by some men, erogenous zones are just one of the tools that accomplished or simply adventurous lovers use to increase the passion and pleasure of their ladies. They are not some sort of magic buttons that, once touched, can turn a woman into a sex-crazed creature, eyes shining with lust. They cannot be used to avoid the approach and courtship stages of any relation (one night stands included). So, guys, you’re not off the hook. You must still summon the courage to make the approach and prove your worth at the courtship game.

Much to everybody’s surprise, the biggest concentration of female erogenous zones is not found on the upper body, but, of all places, the feet. Starting with the soles and toes, which can be gently massaged or licked, and moving up to the delightfully sensitive skin of the ankles and the thighs, the feet are one of the sensual hotspots for the knowledgeable lover. Assuming that the lady in question has perfect hygiene, you can caress, lick and kiss as much as you please and if you’re really good, she will love you for it. The skin behind the knees is also a very sensitive location full of nerve endings just waiting to send waves of pleasure to the brain.

The head is the second area where erogenous zones congregate. The lips (also known as first base by many men out there) are, naturally, a very sensitive spot. Then there’s the nape of the neck, the perfect place to plant your kisses and watch passion grow. And while you’re here, you might wish to whisper sweet nothings in her ears and to bite on them lightly. This will show you’re a really good lover.

I don’t have to tell you that the buttocks are one of the erogenous hot spots of the body. Most women love to be touched there and some actually enjoy a light spanking. And, yes, I know that all you guys are dying to squeeze and caress every round and firm pair of buttocks on sight. A shapely ass is a gift from heaven. And if her hands grab your head while she begs for more, take your time to nuzzle her wrists. Bite her lightly and tell her you’re a vampire out for blood and passion.

The breasts are a time-tested erogenous zone and the favorite fondling spot of many men, but you have to be careful about them. Fact is that every woman has erogenous preferences and while men are dying to play with their breasts, some women may not be aroused by this. Women may also be turned off by poor lovers who give the impression that the only things that interest them in a woman is to get as quickly as possible to the breasts and vagina.

And we’ve saved the best for the last: the biggest erogenous zone of the body. The clitoris, vulva, perineum and anus together make up what is probably the biggest hot spot for erotic sensations. This is where you can let your fingers and lips play as much as you like, if the lady has no objections. Get to know this area well because it can be the gate to sex heaven and a man who really knows how to play down there is worth his weight in gold.

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