Sensual Massage Tips

Sensual massage is the kind of approach that goes wonderfully well with a romantic dinner by candlelight. Take her out for an intimate dinner and then make your move, but instead of getting straight to the intercourse, surprise her with a massage. Let her know that her body is driving you crazy and that you want to touch every single piece of her. This is a time to put your problems and worries aside and focus solely on making her feel hot and sexy. Sensual massage is not a hasty affair, but takes a good long time and it features a lot of touching in the most intimate places. It’s not the kind of massage you would give to just anybody because it’s meant to bring out passion, awaken the senses and come to an explosive end with a satisfying orgasm.

You will probably want to keep a romantic CD or two handy in order to heighten the mood. Massage supplies also include candles and incense, the massage oil, some clean towels and a clean sheet which is bound to get all messy and sticky at the end of the massage session. You should start by massaging softly because the first thing you want is to help your lover relax and get into the right mood. Tease her a bit by playing with the erogenous zones, but avoid the breasts and vagina. Go slow and focus on long, languid strokes while rubbing your body against hers. Find your pace and make sure you don’t leave out any part of her body.

And when you finally reach the most important part of the massage, keep in mind that you should not go for it like a maniac. Maintain the same pace and don’t forget to ask for permission first. Some people don’t actually appreciate that level of attention and might feel too uncomfortable to go all the way. Start by asking her how she feels and if she’s enjoyed the massage so far and then ask her if she wants you to go further. If she says yes, massage her private parts starting with the outer lips and finishing with the clitoris and G-spot. If you’re both comfortable with the use of toys, use a vibrator on her vagina; she won’t mind.